Alhamdulillah, saya masih di sini. FYP saya bergred A+ dan hampir semua urusan dah selesai. Namun saya takkan lupa tarikh 2/1/19 - saat saya hampir menurunkan noktah.
Tiba pula PKP. Semua terkunci di dalam rumah sendiri. Hanya seminggu sekali berkelana mencari bekalan. Pada mulanya, tiada apa-apa yang menarik - hidup bagaikan robot setiap hari tidaklah begitu mengasyikkan. Namun ketika jumlah kes bertambah dan melepasi 4 angka, paranoia mula menyerang.
Did I bring the virus back to my house?
Will my family members get infected?
Are they going to die?
Am I going to die?
Setiap kali rasa tak sedap badan, paracetamol segera ditelan. Kerap kali saya terpaksa berjaga hingga jam 2 atau 3 pagi kerana sibuk melawan paranoia yang berlegar-legar di minda. Setiap kali ada ahli keluarga yang keluar, minda jahat saya memikirkan seribu satu situasi bersifat musibah yang mungkin melanda. Saya takkan rasa tenang selagi mereka tak pulang ke rumah. Mahu sahaja saya menghentakkan tengkorak ini pada mana-mana dinding agar paranoia itu mengalir keluar bersama lelehan darah dari konkusi yang tercipta kelak.
Kini lahir pula satu langkah berjaga-jaga: saya cuba untuk tidak memandu jika sedang marah, kerana saya akan ada keinginan untuk memecut menuju ke mana-mana tembok batu, seperti yang selalu dilihat dalam simulasi kemalangan. Entah kenapa saya membayangkan suatu kepuasan jika dapat berbuat demikian. Bahaya? Semestinya.
As I write this, I'm still unemployed after being officially graduated for almost a year now. I self-published a zine (that's a different story) which is cool, and I proofread FYPs from UiTM students (RM4/page, that's a good deal) but still.. I need a sustainable and fixed income. I still couldn't help to pay the bills or buying dinner without constantly checking my bank account. My daily chores are simply washing and hanging the clothes, as well as looking after Fattah, Shayla, and Sepet. That's it. Nothing else. No job. No effing job.
Macam tak ada fungsi, kan? Anak lelaki sulung apa macam ini? Apa pun tak boleh buat. Balik-balik, fikir benda yang bukan-bukan. Ikutkan sangat paranoia itu. Lebih baik.. faham-faham sajalah.
But who am I kidding? As much as I want to try to do it again, I must resist. I must keep holding on.. for my mother (the last thing I need to see is another round of her endless grief; she had enough (she is strong, but she had enough)), my siblings, and those who enjoy having me as their acquaintance. If it was for me, I would've said "au revoir!" already. But I won't. I just have to.. (urgh, it gets cheesier every time I say this:) stay strong. I can do this.. right?
Now, I share this story because I feel like it's the right thing to do. It's not about trying to get excessive sympathy (the last thing I need is to be treated differently just because of the above revelation). Just treat me normally - annoy me with your antics, and allow me to annoy you. Simple. I just want you to listen to (or in this case, read) my story. That's all. Because writing this down is already a huge relief for me.
Kepada yang menjadi teman saat segalanya lebur, terima kasih. God knows how much I love you. I already made a promise to myself that I'll be there if you happen to be in my shoes someday (God forbid). Kepada yang lain-lainnya, usah risau. Saya baik-baik sahaja. Masih berada dalam julat kelakuan normal.
Satu sahaja permintaan saya: titipkanlah doa kepada-Nya agar saya diberikan ketenangan minda dan jiwa untuk melalui setiap kitaran 24 jam, dan agar jendela rezeki saya dibuka seluas mungkin. insya-Allah, doa itu akan berbalik kepada yang mengirimnya.
It's the 10th of September.
It's the World Suicide Prevention Day.
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